I think most of the women I've been with were comfortable with me, like they knew me somewhat deeply. I was able to be around them in situations where I could be myself, and stuff ended up happening. I have had success on dating apps too, and I always disclose my stutter in my profile and also before I meet up with anyone. Is it possible you just don't know how to talk to women in general? Not a diss, it's a learned skill imo, and I still think I suck at it.