No harm done! Imo it's actually great that you asked, giving people a chance to share their experiences and views is the best way to learn about these things. And, you were absolutely right to see similarities. The social model of disability is a movement in and of itself, and applies just as much to neuroatypical traits and physical conditions as it does neurodivergence - separating inherent limitations from societal issues, and resolving the latter, has positive impacts for literally everyone.