Be you. Love yourself. I felt the same way and for the longest time I thought I had the double-whammy: stuttering and I’m gay. A simple, happy life seemed so far away. I’m now married for 7+ yrs. Therapy sessions, support groups, etc all will help. You/we are unique and I know it’s hard to think about, but be proud to be you. Everyone is unique in their own way. Mentioning it on dating apps is a good idea. My experience is I cared more about my stutter than other people did. Good luck!