thanks for those supporting words. Yes, I am holding out for a while because i don't want her to feel she has an issue by seeking out professional help. I really hope she can grow out of it. I always try to encourage her and she is doing well, and I told her she is doing great. She is a smart girl and got all A's for 4 years through out middle school, and she also works very hard. she always try her best to please everyone.