>Find tricks what work for you. Totally. Whatever works for you. And keep learning about yourself, too. What works may change, and the better you know yourself the more authentic your self-expression. >EVERYBODY IS A FUCKING LOSER EXCEPT ME AND I AM BETTER THAN YOU......." this mindset will help you boost confidence This might help your confidence but a superiority complex might lose you friends fast. I'm not saying don't do it, because the scales have to tip from feeling inferior, and after a while you'll find balance where you realise everyone is equal and no-one is better or worse than anyone else. Of course, you can objectively say someone is better than someone else at a particular thing, say, playing chess or shooting a basketball, but as human beings we all have the same value.