guys this discussion shouldn't evolve into a fight ;) we share the same problem. Apparently daniel0378 and i share the same prespective. if you don't it's ok , your life your choices. But at the end of the day you miss all the shots you don't take, and sitting back and saying that you may not get better and all won't change your situation, it's very simple, you have a problem that's bothering you and keeping of reaching certain things , you tear yourself apart and you work you butt off using wht others know and what you learn along the ride to solve the problem .