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Current SLP grad student here (and a person who stuttered a lot throughout my childhood)- It’s always helpful for parents and family to acknowledge the stutter, but remind the child that it does not define them. Ignoring it altogether can cause the child to feel shameful. On the other hand…pointing it out constantly will cause them to feel anxious and on edge. It’s important to find a balance between acknowledgment and acceptance. Yes, she stutters, but she’s still smart, worthy, and capable of anything non-stutterers can do. Remind your child it’s okay to stutter, and be understanding, like you have been. However, if her stutter is really a cause of distress for her and if it’s impacting her schooling, mental health, etc., it might be a good idea to see another SLP (if you’re able). My speech is fluent now, but I have random days where I still randomly stutter. And I’ve learned to accept it and shrug it off. And if someone asks me about it and tries to make fun, I’m like “Well I stutter”…And that shuts them down real quick. Your daughter will be okay. The most challenging part is getting her to realize that what people say at school means nothing. Also, it’s challenging to build confidence…But she seems to have a great support system (aka you:-)), so I have hope for her!