Like first gf? Classmates in grammar school. First and hopefully only wife - university. She was the randomly assigned roommate to one of my female friends. We'd talk ever so often, but looking back at it, I asked her out for ice cream via AOL IM. Along with most of our chats. And I never actually asked her to marry me either. On a trip to Paris I had a ring on hand and she said "how much do you love me?" And being the smooth guy I am just slid the ring on her and said "this much."