People have good and bad days. OP, when the bad days happen they will rant it here on reddit and you happen to see it, then here you are telling them to stop victimized themselves like sure thts tough love but damn bro give them a break. It isn't like they didn't even try to be better at all. They did. They just decide to not show you their effort. To all you stutterers... it's okay, let your frustration out and rant. Just don't forget to try again. It's okay to blame all on your stuttering SOMETIMES. It's okay to feel defeated SOMETIMES. Take care of your health and try again. Everyday is a fresh start.