postr/StutterJune 25, 2018

Stuttering and girls

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Stuttering and girls I recently came across a comment that really hit home on how to deal with women while having a stutter. As most of you guys know, shit can suck. All of you might not agree with everything, but I think it’s pretty solid advice. — Some men are bald, some men are short, some men have a small dick. You stutter. Big deal. Get over it. Here are some practical tips: 1. Get jacked. You can't control your fluency, but you can control your gains. Channel all of your frustration and your feelings of powerlessness into the gym. Lift heavy. Build your body into a temple where women want to worship. Get clothes that fit you well. Become the ripped stud. 2. Own your stutter. Turn your weakness into your strength. The fact that you stutter is just one part of your identity. I promise you: the biggest problem with your stutter is *how you feel about it*. You are self-conscious about your stutter and insecure about your speech, and *that* is the part that turns off chicks. Chicks do not want to fuck a perfect robot. People are attracted to one another's "rough edges." Stuttering is your "rough edge," and it makes you human, vulnerable, and will help disarm women. Yes, you will need to have sharp game and be confident. Just like all men who want to succeed with women. But your stutter is what makes you relatable to chicks. The fact that you have the confidence to approach a chick boldly and start chatting her up, *even though you stutter*, can actually work in your favor. It's like a dude in a wheelchair who plays sports, has kept his upper body in top shape, and is outgoing and confident with women. Yes, some chicks are going to be turned off- you don't want them in your life anyways. But *many* chicks are going to be turned on. Make a girl think to herself: *this dude stutters, but he is acting like he should be fucking me right now. How big must his dick be for him to be this confident with a stutter??* Have you seen the one-armed football athlete making the rounds on Reddit? He just broke records running the dash. You think a single chick sees him and thinks "oh he's only got one arm, no way would I fuck that dude" ... not at all. They all get wet at the idea of a man so dynamic and strong that he was able to beat all his peers with one arm. 3. Let her hear you stutter as soon as you start talking to her. This ties into number 2 ^. Stuttering is no longer your weakness, remember? It is your strength. It is your rough edge. So embrace that shit and advertise it. The moment you try to hide it, you are subconsciously communicating to yourself that it is something to be ashamed of. And chicks sniff out those types of vibes like bloodhounds. Instead, don't hide it at all. Wear it on your sleeve. If for some reason you are speaking fluently in front of her and not stuttering, *stutter on purpose* so you can get it out of the way. Then you won't have to worry about it coming out; you got ahead of it, you owned it, and you showed her through your behavior that it is not a problem to you in the least bit. *"You're full of shit! I've stuttered my whole life, and no chick ever liked me because of it! "Rough edge" my ass!"* The main issue is that women do not want an incomplete man who needs her to build him up. They want a dynamic man who has already built himself up. Women do not want to *build you up,* because that is not her job. Her job is to test you and try to tear you down. So if you are insecure about your stutter, then she will feel the vibe and you'll be like an anchor that sucks away the energy from her. She wants to feel that you are an *unshakable source* of masculine energy. She wants to see that you are an imperfect man who rose to the challenge and succeeded anyways. And you will communicate this through your actions. So own your stutter, embrace your rough edges, get your ass to the gym, and **GET AFTER IT**.

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Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability

Subthemes

Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride

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intimidation_authoritysocializing_group_sizesocializing_one_on_onepropositionalitysocial_pressure