I really struggled with this when I was younger. Ultimately, people are going to treat you the way they treat you. You can't really change it so it's not worth getting mad about. Just remember that everyone's not alike - even the reactions that they give you can't be 100% sure about... maybe they actually respect your struggle. I don't know. Everyone's unique. My advice: Don't get too hung up on this, you've got other things to think about.