Two syllable first name starts with a D and one syllable surname that starts with an S. I never stood a chance. Upside, got really good at dancing, not a joke. When your name is a barrier it's a whole thing. You know this. It's unexplainable to those who don't understand and at 42 I live alone, limit my interaction with the world and prefer this life. Control your environment. Even if it means being really boring. It's worth it.