> “modern women are shit because feminism,” essentially the “all men bad” meme but in reverse lol. Great question. I agree with you 100%, most arguments are valid but unfortunately it got hijacked by misogynists and people who promote the victim mentality. Who doesn't like to hear that he is perfect, it's women who are X,Y,Z. People like "red meat" and it sells good so lots of guys jumped on this train and that made red pill more controversial and not taken seriously. I think that in its genuine form,"redpill" is mostly a criticism of men - pointing out their mistakes, pointing out where they might fall and make them aware of that so they can avoid it. So for me being "red pilled" is being aware of the social and political dynamics that surround us, seeing through the lies that we were raised to believe and avoiding as many mistakes as possible. Learning to put myself and my interests first, not being ashamed of my masculinity, understanding how to deal with women in a way that benefits both sides, understanding red flags and so more. I highly recommend on the works of Rollo Tomassi, his books and podcasts are amazing. If you listen to one men in this sphere, listen to him, it's more than enough.