Yea I can totally relate to this. If I didn't have my stutter, I'd have far more instances where saying the wrong thing has got me in trouble and lost friends. It still happens if I'm texting on WhatsApp or Slack 😅. But I for sure would have be more of an asshole in another life if I didn't have stutter. For sure would have been in more detentions, suspensions, called to the principals office or maybe even jail because of fights that probably I instigated due to ego. I'd have to have some other experience to humble me so that I'd realise that not everything that came to mind needs to be said. Stuttering has made me realize that a majority of the things we think need to be said, aren't that important or worth the effort. And that we should choose our words wisely.