Most good girls will look for your skills and your ability to sustain a decent career. Additionally caring and supportive husband. She can talk for you in group gatherings in a unknown place. You just smile and put a chewing gum ,and seem quiet that's all. You are a not a CEO or a big member to address to the party crowd. Many famous people even tennis icon Pete Sampras talk very very less and never expose himself. Sameway we can be silent champions in real life. Why the need if flashy life !!