be the strong silent type. How old are you if i may ask? i got to an age where i didnt really give a shit anymore. If anyone thought i wasnt a "man" because i couldnt speak right then they could fuck right off. There's a lot of ways to being a man, and im sure it varies from women to women what they see as manly. Women like a man with confidence, not someone who self doubts and pities them self all the time.