commentr/StutterSeptember 12, 2018

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Made me understand that treating people with respect is paramount and the most important thing in the world. I want people to give me a fair shot so I HAVE to do the same back to them. Additionally, this has spread to my entire world view (ie: politics...was my college major) that treating others as you want to be treated should be the first thing you think of when making a decision. Everyone's different. I accept that because I myself is different. ​ As for your list, I've always been taught not to avoid the word i'm struggling on (though I have sometimes) so idk if #1 applies directly to stuttering haha. #4 hits the nail on the head #5 as well #6 good point. ​ I've always thought that it'd be nice to never have stuttered but then I look back at how it has shaped me and I think it's been a good thing. It's forced me to understand how to deal with adversity and being comfortable being uncomfortable. Definitely a blessing in disguise. (though I will admit mine is probably not as bad as others from what I've read here)

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Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability

Subthemes

Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride