I don't know what people think about this, but let me tell you something. You are neither right nor wrong about it, you are wrong because "your fellow stutterers" don't think the same as you do, they can't. Every individual deals with problems differently, that fellow needs to hear what you call "toxic positivity", but you can't bear to see it, because everybody copes differently. It's like when someone cries they want someone to comfort them, you want to be alone, it's just like that. You're right, because if you look a little bit carefully at these stuttering community solidarities, you'll see that nobody really "copes" with it, but they talk about what they tried as if they did. Everyone can say things like I did this and that and my stuttering went away, I worked with discipline and it went away, but this is not something that will "go away", it will go away, but in the future, when you stutter again, you will be afraid that it will happen again and it will repeat itself. Stuttering is a psychological and neurological disorder this is known fact, I am also a stutterer and I am not afraid to say this because I once met a courier who delivered my food with confidence by stuttering to my face without any fear. At that moment I realized that the fear of "the other people seeing you as a weak - disabled individual" that we are all afraid of is completely dependent on us. I am still trying to cope, and like you, toxic positivity bothers me, but remember that every individual is different.