"he would frequently ask me questions about myself. In a short period of time we quickly became close" , also "he realised I was rather anxious, and that it made me become instantly interesting to him. So he began to observe me". These sound suspicious on their own, and together even more so. But then again i only know him from this post and cant really be a good judge, maybe he finds some common experiences between you and it makes him feel safe, thats just a random guess (and idk what the "observing" was like. so that would also affect the assessment of his character). glad he is helpful and understanding!And yeah, same about giving away my trust 😅Sorry if this gave u unnecessary doubts and anxiety, im myself an anxious mf. so. yeah.