When I have all these thoughts in my mind that I want to get out but it's taking too long for them to get out. It sounds like the perfect scenario for the "relax, calm down and speak," but this can be when I'm just talking to my fiancé about the news or what we're doing that day. Sometimes it just takes.too.long. People finishing my words, the snicker when I block or repeat, or not feeling confident enough on to make regular phone calls.