I am just very curious so please bear with me... Why is it so important to people to "lose their virginity?" I mean wouldn't it be more important to focus on perhaps having a supportive and loving relationship with a partner that is sexually attractive to you? I am not mad at OP but I am kind of appalled by his/her attitude. You are looking at another human beings sexuality (including your own) as an object or a means to an end and you will not only be hurt in the end with an attitude like that, but you will also hurt someone else. This is toxic! I really hope OP is a young dumb child rather than an adult. I might add with an attitude like that, probably never.