Maybe I would be worried about those things if I didn't have a good example to look to in my grandad. My dad is the oldest of his eleven kids. He's got a stutter as bad as mine but he's been a great dad and a great grandad. Nobody would think of being disrespectful to him or embarrassed by him; we're all proud of him actually, and he's my role model. He's worked hard and been really successful in life. He didn't really have friends growing up because he was so embarrassed to speak, so he basically just created his own social group who love and admire him lol. Having a bunch of kids is the way to go.