You're being grump tbh. People tell me to "breathe" a lot haha. I could get offended I suppose, but what's the use in that. You should on the where the message is coming from and not the words within the message. Those people telling me to breathe are only trying to help... That guy comforting you is only trying to help and maybe let you know that it's no big deal to him. I think you're being a bit unfair to assume the worse of him if I'm honest with you.