I never wanted it to be about who has it "harder" so to speak, rather just the differences we experience. I don't believe I said, nor did I ever want to imply, that one gender has it more difficult than the other... but your comment proved my point exactly, which is that there are differences in how it impacts men and women. I did not know that statistic btw :-O I only ever heard that 1/4 stutters is female, but thanks for the tidbit :-) I am a terrible speaker as well, but that is to be expected, so no worries and I look forward to it!