Im 21M, met my girlfriend at my first ever job which was at a supermarket (even posted about it on this subreddit how anxious I was to apply for my first ever job lol). We started off as good friends and ended up in a relationship. She’s absolutely perfect, accepts every last cell of me, my best friend and smoking hot. Can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with here. I actually made the same kind of post as you did just a few months before I met my current girlfriend, so I know exactly how you feel. I never thought I would ever have a girlfriend. And now here I am, nearing almost 1,5 years in a relationship with the love of my life. You will cross paths with your partner one day brother and it will come so unexpectedly. Try not to focus on girls too much and focus on being happy with and working on yourself. “You wont ever catch a butterfly chasing it, but if you work on creating your own beautiful garden the butterfly will come to you.”