commentr/StutterNovember 15, 2022

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I see. For me I also think a stutter can be a dealbreaker for some people so I also want to let them know beforehand in case it's not for them. People aren't obligated to feel attracted to you despite of your stutter, some people just aren't into it and I respect that. It's like if you don't mention that you're deaf before going to a date with someone (obviously that's much more extreme but I still think the point stands) I have talked with some girls on reddit where they told me they for example have a kink of articulate dirty talking, and then I of course told them of my stutter and we both agreed we wouldn't be a good match, and I completely respect that

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Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships

Subthemes

Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others

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