I used to be more tolerant, but now it bothers me much more. I have a wonderful Mormon family but , nevertheless, much of what is being revealed to active members is totally new to them. I value my family, I’ve not only left Mormonism but I’m now an Atheist. My fantastic Mormon family still loves and respects me. Because I love them so much I let them live their dream. It’s too much for many members to accept the deceit and horror of the church they love so much.