commentr/StutterSeptember 23, 2019

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Recently graduating college, I feel your pain when it comes to saying your name in class, reading aloud, etc. Even though it can be excruciatingly tough and challenging, every little bit of exposure you get to public speaking helps. I did countless public speaking and gave plenty of presentations throughout college. I used to dread them and lose sleep over them, they made me an anxious wreck. However, I started to notice that people in college were exceptionally more respectful and understanding of it. To the point where after presentations where I stuttered noticeably bad, people would clap louder for me than they did others. People would come up to me after class, introduce themselves and say that they respect me for trying hard despite my speech impediment. What I'm trying to get at here is that there is nothing more brave, empowering and frankly bad ass than powering through your speech impediment and owning it. It might feel like the opposite of this right now but your stutter doesn't own you, but you have the power to own it. I was in almost your exact shoes 4 years ago. College will provide you with plenty of opportunities for social interaction, self reflection and practice. Just know that it will get better. Keep doing your thing brother. ​ My PM's are always open to chat, for you or anyone.

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School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability

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School & Academic LifePublic SpeakingHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride