In that context, of course not... but I can’t even tell you the number of people I have talked to in an attempt to give them some tips for their situation, and they just won’t even try it. Instead, they’ll keep talking about how their life sucks because of xyz, which are valid reasons for your life to suck, but sitting there complaining about it and not taking action does nothing. Trying to help people who don’t want to help themselves is not only futile but also frustrating, because I know what they are dealing with and I know, from my personal experience and from the experiences of others, that doing nothing is not just “doing nothing” it has real negative consequences