Not about being comfortable about who I am, but I get really frustrated by the fact that if my speech and communication was smooth enough and I am able to express my thoughts as I think them and not express it in an unclear and distorted way , I feel I would be a much more attractive, witty and intellectual and happy/satisfied person than the useless, untalented,nervous wreck that I currently am. Because I can't express my interesting thoughts as I think them coherently, people think I'm silly and dumb and don't see the potential in me.