Then how am I so confident when I can barely speak? Too often I see people who stutter blaming their stutter for there issues and I don't blame you . But it can be done, you just won't. and that comes down to your mindset. I don't mean to be rude, I understand how you feel. But until you change the things your telling yourself unfortunately you won't see much change. A little self belief goes a loooong way my friend, I hope you understand