Thank you so much! I was trying to get some insight from this sub before talking about it with him but I agree that it is best not to make any assumptions. I'll definitely bring it up and briefly talk about it with him and see what his preference is Also, what about casual conversations such as "how was or weekend or what are your plans for the weekend", I want him to be included in casual banter but also I don' t want him to feel uncomfortable. Should I keep casual conversations short or just talk to him like a normal person lol?