its hard to explain, but there are 2 types of reactions, the nice one or the not so nice one, so if i stutter infront of a nice relative they would hear me out, then talk to my dad about my stutter as in how long has he been stuttering and etc, situation 2, if the nice relative already knows i stutter 90% of the time they will ask hasnt it got any better?, situtation 3, if i stutter infront of them, they will think im retarded (mostly the village relatives have this reaction)