Bro, everybody got good responses for you but I'll say one thing... Dating is also a numbers game. I don't mean in a cold-hearted, naplam the whole club with pickups but you gotta put yourself out there. The more you try the more opportunities you'll have. Also, when you're hooking up or hanging with a chosen lady -- stay out of your head and in the moment. Nothing worse than having a hot makeout session and thinking "oh shit, <something unimportant>". Instead, be present and focus on the feel of her lips, the taste of her mouth, how her body feels against you. When you're with a woman, nothing else matters but being present with her hotness.