I've had this combination coupled with depression for almost all my life. Thankfully, the depression is slowly fading away but it's still there. It's a deadly combination. I had a terrible childhood but now as I'm older I'm trying to make up for lost time. I've put myself in a lot of sticky and extremely uncomfortable situations and I think I'm better for it now. I think everyone has their own way of dealing with these differences so it would be better to see what works best for you :)