postr/StutterJanuary 29, 2024

i feel a little bit hypocrite

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i feel a little bit hypocrite im 25, been stuttering since 3. i sometimes have hypocritical thoughts.. for sure every stutterer wants to be accepted by his people especially new people in his life. like new girlfriend, new colleagues etc. but sometimes i try to put myself in somebody’s shoes, like what if im the listener and my gf is the one who stutters, would i accept it? would i be okay with it? that’s why i fall in love with everybody who accepts me, like i would give you my life fr, i don’t see it an easy thing. i see my friends as champs for accepting this, they still call me and listen to me like they’ve used to it. i lived my whole life not blaming people who turn me down, because i know how hard is it. i might attack the people who mock me, but i totally understand when some people can’t deal with stuttering. if somebody here have a stutterer partner or sibling, give me your thoughts and what do you think about your the stutterer in your life?

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Community & SupportIdentity & Disability

Subthemes

Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride

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socializing_one_on_oneperceived_judgmentsocial_pressure