I didn’t see your post, but I do wonder something - maybe the downvotes came from people who misunderstood or feel overwhelmed at the idea of “accepting your stutter”. If your stutter manifests with significant avoidance and panic and you hear “just accept it!!”, you may think it means learning to be ok with the avoidance and panic. In reality, it means to learn tools to reduce the avoidance and panic. I see this confusion all the time on this sub. Again, I didn’t see your post, so I could be incorrect.