I get what your saying, but you're misunderstanding me. I'm trying to motivate the kid, not turn him from reality. I have a crippling stutter too. I get it. However, he can have a romantic relationship despite a severe stutter. I have. He can go on do fantastic things that even non-stutters haven't. I have. He's going to have to work harder and smarter than fluent speakers like I've had to. Life sucks for us stutterers, bit that doesn't mean we're doomed to a lifetime of rejection. You go get her OP. Worst thing she can say is no.