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This is basically a book but, I highly recommend you read it. Another commenter here is partially right. You are meeting women in situations where they are likely seeking out a partner too and they are likely finding something in these other guys that you either lack or are not as good at. Do I think this is because of your talking? No. At least not every single time. I stutter, badly. At my best, I could get out 15-30 words before stuttering but on most days, it's 5-8 words without a stutter and up to 10 before I fully lock up. During that lock up, my face contorts, my chest tightens, my neck extends as I am trying force the word out, and I gasp for air. It's not very attractive. I have done so my entire life and still do. Yet, I have dated several stunning women and ended up marrying a woman who absolutely stunning. What you need to do is look passed your stutter and look at your other faults(we all have them, don't even pretend you don't). Are you being too pushy? Are you making things awkward because you're obviously excited and horny? Are you being too sexual too quickly? Women are going to be nice and interact with you, regardless of whether or not they are interested. Sure, some may tell you gtf away. But, most are not that shallow. They will let you talk and even act like they're listening well, because they are being nice.. And, because they are not that shallow, that also means they are not going to insta-dump you just because of your stuttering. There are a few who will but, they are not someone you would want to date any ways. Why are you striking out with so many women? No one here can tell you for sure because we don't know you. However, by your terminology "getting cucked", "pathetic beta", "we are all still part of Darwinism and so we need to compete for mates". This sounds very much like an incel/redpill personality squeaking out and the issue is likely a product of this that is coming out a little bit in your attempts. Now, I am not trying to be an ass by saying that but, I am certainly being blunt. While the base idea of "we need to compete for mates" is true, it is certainly not how you think. And, I think you are lacking an understanding of what women want. You want physical action. You want to touch her, kiss her, have sex with her. She wants you to sweep her off of her feet. She wants to stimulate her mind and she wants you to be a good father for future children. Most importantly, she wants you to stand out over other men. Woman can absolutely be horn dogs and can absolutely get instantly turned on a by very attractive guy and want him to jump her bones but, personality matters sooooooo much more to women. This is one the things that makes dating so hard. Men and women have 2 very different ideas of what love is and what a relationship means. Women deal with men sending dick pics and talking sexual all day, every day. Many deal with being sexualized even before knowing what sex is. They figured it out later and then think back going "oh my god, that dude was a pervert!". If you don't believe me, go create a fake female account on a dating site. You will be bombarded with hundreds, maybe even thousands, of messages a day. So, while sex is important to women too, it's not super high on the list of "traits that are hard to find". They can get sex any second of any day. You on the other hand, you don't give a shit about personality traits. You want attractive and want to jump in bed right away cuz your hormones are screaming it's all that matters. So, men and women have 2 very different ideas and goals butting heads when trying to date. So what do you do? Stop trying to fuck them. Stop letting your dick run your world. Get control of it and realize there is more to it than that. Stop believing you're a beta male and getting cucked. That is just foolish and does nothing to help your personality. Learn to communicate with women. How? Easy, read a couple dating books. Read a couple romance novels directed at women so you can see how their romance is different from yours. Even if it's boring, do it. You don't get good without learning and working hard. But, most importantly, learn to ask questions and then listen. Listen to what she has to say. Be interested in what she has to say. Many questions are universal and can be asked to any women "so what do you do for work?" after they answer "oh, neat, what does entail?". Just google "good questions to ask women when meeting" or something like that. Don't be the guy that is trying to push the conversation somewhere and drive the interaction. Let her have control of the conversation and willingly hand it over.... This works in your favor too because you will have to talk less. Most importantly don't try to be physical. Be interested in her. But, not interested in her physically. Be interested in who she is. Do women love a good joke? Of course, we all like jokes. But, do you know what they like more than jokes? New and different attention. If you had spent years and years being talked to sexually and having almost every man that spoke to you, only be interested in shooting his DNA inside you... Well, having a person be interested in you for anything else REALLY stands out. And, THAT will hook more women than any joke, smooth talking, big dick, big muscles, all of it. Make her feel different. Make her feel like what she does, has done, and is planning to do is important. How do you get good at this? Practice and patience. Nothing else. You're going to get turned down. You're going to start out sucking at it. But keep reading and talking. Though, I recommend you start small and not face to face. Get on a dating site and contact women and be honest with them about your intentions. And, do not turn it sexual at any point. I know it is hard but, don't. If you feel sexual thoughts coming on, take 10 and jerk off... Tell her the exact truth in the first message. "Listen, I am contacting you because I am trying to get better at speaking with women. I am not interested in dating or even meeting. However, I would like to chat and ask you a few questions and maybe ask for some tips and pointers. I am not good at this and I'd like to get better.".... You won't succeed with everyone woman here, though. Lots of women are going to go "yeah, sure, buddy. You're just trying to get in my pants"... Cuz, it's what 99% of men do. So, if they don't respond. Just move on... After you've met a few chatting partners and you've chatted for a while, tell them about your stutter too. Say something like "another thing that has made it tough, is that I stutter. That is also why I chose to talk online verses asking a woman to chat with me in person. I find it easier and I am less awkward online. It can be bad sometimes and it can be a real challenge for myself and the woman I am talking to". Women dig different and they dig honesty.... You very well may find yourself in a situation where one of those chat buddies sends a message to you and says "Maybe it would help even more if we talked in person". If you want to out compete your *rivals*, be different. Now, let me just say this. If you're a teenager, yea, never mind. This is advice for young adults and adults. If so, just be patient and let the girls mature. It's not the end of the world to be single in high school.