Thanks a lot! So I just watched these videos. I’m not a big fan of pick-up artists, especially the 3rd video. Lots of pick-up artists promote the idea of scarcity, being hard to get and unavailable. It works, but only for women who are traumatized, play games or have low self-worth. If you’re attracted to that stuff, you’re attracted to a dynamic, not a person. I do think the 2nd is great! I believe part of flaking on my end (or anyone’s end) can be because I don’t flirt enough or make my intentions clear, hence why I get placed in the platonic field in early interactions.