Let me put this in a blunt way: You _already know_ how you can approach someone. You just won't do it, because you're afraid. So, stop thinking about all those things you're thinking about in your post. It's just fear talking. Go approach someone. See what happens. There's no plan that can determine the future, so just go - do the thing you want. Then do other things afterwards as sell. There are many opportunities throughout your life. Start seeking them out. :) - And yes, by all means - share your feelings! It's not the point of this comment that you shouldn't do so. However, you're going to have to _do_ something, otherwise you'll never figure out what might happen.