I remember this movie which was a huge hit 2006, Borat: Cultural Learnings of America for Make Benefit Glorious Nation of Kazakhstan. in one scene the main protagonist, Borat was discussing humor. He said what was the most funy thing for him. I can't remember the exact quote but it goes something like this. "I have a mentally retarded brother who lives in a cage in our basement. Sometimes our sister comes next to his cage takes her panties off, spreads her legs and starts rubbing her vageen, he can smell it, almost touch it goes all crazy and cries while my sister says "you want some of this? You won't get it hahahaha" And the me and my the entire family lough their asses off, high five!" Quite often I meet really nice people whom I can't make friends with, or see an opportunity to elevate my socioeconomic status which seems really really close but I just can't get it.