Haha you won't offend me. I love my mum and think she has many great qualities but she also has her own flaws, and being very judgemental and opinionated is one of them. You do make a good point that this is HER problem not mine. So I guess this is actually all on me... Do I change my technique to please my mum or ignore what she thinks, that's the real question here. Thanks for answering, you actually helped a lot