I agree with you. I left this subreddit for a long time because it was so negative, it was getting me down and making my stutter worse. When I mostly overcame my stutter, I joined back to try to help other people. I frequently get pushback when I suggest to others what worked for me. So now I don’t try anymore, if they don’t want to keep trying to better themselves and want to just wallow in misery…then that’s on them.