I know most people will say "not with that attitude!" as a joke, but in this case it's true. You're never going to have a frame or confidence if you don't start allowing yourself to have a frame or confidence. I'm 35, I have the most perfect wife for me, and a daughter I wouldn't want to live without. Your stutter doesn't hold you back, you allow it to hold you back. It's tough at first, but you can do it!