There are wonderful people out there who see beyond the stutter. We are so much mire than our fluency. I was married for 54 years to a professional man who always proudly presented me to his peers socially in every situation. There are always those people with enough self esteem to appreciate you for everything, not just how fluent you are. Congratulations to you and your husband for your 9 years of a marriage in which you are accepted and proudly presented. You have a keeper.