First approaches are always terrible man. I rarely do them. Usually some chick comes up to me or is introduced through my social circle and we hit it off somehow. Or they boldly approach me first and don’t give a shit that I stutter. I’ve had 2-3 one night stands like that. That and I use tinder and bumble as a crutch but I’m usually fluent throughout the date. It’s that first approach anxiety irl that gets me. If I did it more often it would go away and I’d have more success than I do now.