I was a player in my younger years and I can answer this honestly. I don't really think you'll find someone with a "kink". What you find is if you have a stutter and wear it well, it's attractive. It's no different than being ugly with charisma. It polarizing, and women freaking love that. Secondly, your stutter is humanizing. It's a gateway for a sincere connection. When rough edges meet, it creates friction and tension. If your not desperate or a creep the friction becomes intimate. It's not something you can fake though, you have to be secure with your stutter first.