I see what you mean, and understand that people don’t want to be with stutterers. Even so, the stutterer does not need to associate themselves with such people as well. After all, you can’t please everyone in life, but the ones that stick around with you are more than enough. And yes maybe blame is not the word; a stutterer can’t be friends with everyone they meet. However people should be mindful at the very least. Being mean about it is just the worst