I do feel beta about it a little bit. But self depreciation gets the group to laugh and I'm automatically the funny guy. That and it shows people I'm not bothered by my stuttering. People will wait to hear me say something. Im slowly trying to phase the self depreciation out. My stats are similar to yours. 6'0 185lbs, 14% BF. RP stuff like not giving a shit, how to get past shit tests, LMR, etc. As for suggestions... i've heard groupme is good. Outdoorsy shit. Hiking and what not. Do something other than just lift to train your body. I live in the middle of nowhere so it doesn't really help but if you're in a big city, try it out. Im not the best for dating advice because most of my shit is online. I still hate in person approaches but ill answer whatever questions you may have. Anything in person, the girl has approached me or I already knew them through friends.